Elizabeth Strout's Oh William!
Book Review of Elizabeth Strout's Oh William!
I’ve read a few enjoyable and comforting reads in recent weeks, but Elizabeth Strout’s Oh William! is the first book I’ve picked up, in absolutely ages, that I struggled to put down. I read it in two sittings.
The strength of Elizabeth Strout’s Oh William! is the connection that the reader makes to Lucy Barton the narrator. She tells the story in first person and focuses on the minutiae of life, which she uses to explore big life questions. The effect that an individual’s childhood has on their present and future self is never far from the surface of the book.
In Elizabeth Strout’s Oh William!, Lucy’s second husband has recently died. She finds herself spending time with her first husband, William, and she and he go on an actual and metaphorical journey of reflection. William’s own life is unravelling as his third marriage disintegrates. Lucy and he discover hidden family secrets that create insight and provide them with greater understanding of who they are and why they are as they are. We learn a lot about William’s mother, Catherine and through that see the complexity of son/mother relationships. I’m sure if this were a high school text it would be worth analyzing from a Freudian stance.
Oh William! Is a book that focuses hugely on connection. The narrator’s own self-awareness of time passing, the significance of perception and her ability to pinpoint precise emotion is incredible. There is absolutely nothing twee or sentimental in the writing, though it is nostalgic, particularly in relation to their shared grown up children. The sophistication, yet simplicity of the writing in Elizabeth Strout’s Oh William! makes it an utter joy to read.
Book Discussion Questions for Elizabeth Strout's Oh William!
Book Club Questions on Elizabeth Strout's Oh William! (If you haven't read the book).
Personal Response to Elizabeth Strout's Oh William!
The phrase Oh William! made me think of a different book Oh David! by David Shannon. It is a text I used to read to Key Stage 1 children when I worked as a librarian. Oh David! features a little boy who does a series of naughty acts from knocking over a vase to running down the street naked. Despite all his misdemeanors his mum loves him anyway.
This is, I think, kind of how Lucy feels about William. In life we make mistakes, we don’t understand why people act the way they do, we put faith in individuals when perhaps it isn’t deserved and we can’t ever really understand or explain why we do the things we do.
As Lucy observes the actions of her first husband she frequently says Oh William! This sums up the emotions she feels toward him, without perhaps having to overtly articulate or fully understand them. We are all a bundle of complex and contradictory emotions, which leave us baffled, yet alive!
Matt Haig's The Comfort Book
Book Review of Matt Haig's The Comfort Book
Matt Haig’s The Comfort Book is the perfect read for anyone who has found themselves at a low ebb and needs a message of hope that things can and will get better.
Matt Haig begins The Comfort Book by telling the readers that the structure of his writing makes it a messy read. It has both short and long chapters, lists, quotes, case studies and even the occasional recipes. It is quite random in structure, but the theme that runs through The Comfort Book is one of connection. Everything is connected to everything else – hope to despair, pain to joy and so on. It also reminds us repeatedly that the simple fact of our existence is a reason for hope and joy, that we don’t need to try to be anything other than what we are, or meet anyone else’s expectations. Just be!
Matt Haig’s The Comfort Book is written in a completely non-judgmental tone. It is friendly and warm and welcoming. Part memoir, with a little bit of philosophy for beginners, for me it is a book of substance. It creates a solid and positive basis for building self-love which can help readers avoid faulty thinking or going down a spiral of negativity. Even if you are not feeling low or needing comfort it is a book of hope and I found it frequently amusing. It is definitely a book that enhancing wellbeing and creates a feeling of positivity. I was delighted to read under the heading Wolf, that “Crying releases stress hormones. Swearing increases pain tolerance. Fury can motivate us into action.” The book legitimates both activity and inactivity as a means of managing life.
Book Discussion Questions for Matt Haig's The Comfort Book
Book Club Questions on The Comfort Book (If you haven't read the book)
Uplifting Quotes from Matt Haig's The Comfort Book
Are you looking for some uplifting and comforting words that can inspire and motivate you during difficult times? Look no further than Matt Haig's latest book, 'The Comfort Book'. Here are some of the top quotes from the book that will provide solace and hope when you need it most.
The power of kindness and compassion
One of the recurring themes in ‘The Comfort Book’ is the power of kindness and compassion. Haig reminds us that acts of kindness, no matter how small they may seem, can have a huge impact on someone’s life. He writes, “I believe in little acts of kindness – the world could use more of them. That could just mean checking up on someone who looks like they are having a bad day and offering some kind words or just being there to listen.” His message is simple yet profound: we all have the ability to make a positive impact on others through expressions of kindness and compassion.
Embracing imperfection and vulnerability
Another theme explored in ‘The Comfort Book’ is the importance of embracing imperfection and vulnerability. Haig acknowledges that we live in a society that often values perfection and strength above all else, but argues that this mentality can be harmful to our mental health. He writes, “We need to embrace the fact that we are all imperfect, vulnerable humans who make mistakes and experience pain.” By accepting our flaws and vulnerabilities, Haig suggests that we can find peace within ourselves and with others. This message is particularly relevant today, as many people struggle with anxiety and feelings of inadequacy in a world that often glorifies perfectionism.
Letting go of expectations and fears
In 'The Comfort Book', Matt Haig encourages readers to let go of their expectations and fears. He writes, “Expectations are pre-planned resentments” and argues that by having overly high expectations, we set ourselves up for disappointment and frustration. Similarly, he urges readers to confront their fears rather than avoid them, writing “Fear is a feeling, not a fact ...sometimes the only way to conquer fear is to enter it.” By releasing our expectations and facing our fears head on, we can free ourselves from unnecessary stress and anxiety, ultimately finding more comfort in our lives.
Finding solace in nature and the simple things in life
For Matt Haig, one way to find comfort is by connecting with nature and embracing the simple things in life. In 'The Comfort Book', he writes, “This is a world of magic and mystery…we are part of nature and not apart from it,” highlighting the importance of recognizing our place in the natural world. He also emphasizes finding joy in ordinary moments, writing "the mundane can be miraculous". Whether it’s watching a sunset or enjoying a cup of tea, finding inspiration in small things can bring us comfort and remind us of life's inherent beauty.
Personal Response to Matt Haig's The Comfort Book
“Feel what you feel,” says Matt Haig. “Sometimes it is good to howl.” What’s not to like? Although written with a lightness of touch, the message of The Comfort Book is profound. Connection is all.
Some of the text in The Comfort Book can be viewed as an inspiration for personal activities, such as writing a list of music that is significant or cheer inspiring. I think that this book would be wonderful to dip into as a class tutor, parent or teenager. Obviously, I have no way of knowing if this is true, but my hunch is that this book has helped many people who are in complete despair.