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Book Review of The Party by Elizabeth Day

The Party by Elizabeth DayI’m a big fan of Elizabeth Day. I listen to her brilliant podcasts How to Fail and Best Friend Therapy and I’ve read several of her books. In fact, I’ve already written about Magpie and Friendaholic, so stumbling across The Party in the magical treasure trove that is Barter Books the other weekend felt like striking gold. I checked where it came in the pecking order of her writing and was rather pleased to find it is one of her earlier novels which made me curious to see how she had evolved as a writer.

From the very first page I was captivated. Sebastian Faulks’s description “Witty, dark and compelling” could not be more accurate. And because I follow Elizabeth Day’s work so closely, I found it especially intriguing to catch glimpses of that darker undercurrent which also threads through Magpie. There is something about her ability to explore the shadowy side of human nature that is utterly mesmerising.

The Party follows the intertwined lives of Martin, a clever scholarship boy, and Ben, his dazzlingly wealthy and entitled classmate from a privileged private school background. Their friendship, if it can truly be called that, begins in their youth and stretches into adulthood, though always on uneven footing. As Martin narrates, we also hear from his wife Lucy, and the story opens with Martin being questioned in a police cell after a glittering party ends in disaster. Ben’s wife lies in hospital, comatose, and slowly we are drawn back through the decades to uncover what really happened and why.

It is impossible not to think of the Eton set, of Boris Johnson and his circle of old boys, when reading about Ben and his group of privileged friends. Angus Nethercott, the school bully who once pinched Martin’s beloved teddy, is a vivid example of the cruelty woven through that world. Against this backdrop, Martin’s devotion to Ben is both fascinating and unsettling. Rejected by his own cold and eccentric mother, who still sends the bloodied Christmas cards that her husband dropped when he fell to his death, Martin’s fixation on Ben becomes the emotional core of the novel.

At its heart The Party is a psychological study of nature versus nurture, love and rejection, secrecy, betrayal and the long shadow of truth withheld. Like in Magpie, Day moves between past and present with seamless grace. You are never left confused but instead gently led along the trail of revelations, each chapter pulling you deeper into the characters’ world.

It would be unfair to say the novel lacks a plot, for it certainly has one and a gripping one at that, but the real brilliance lies in Day’s ability to render her characters with such depth and nuance. The events at the party act less as a climax than as a frame for exploring power, privilege and human frailty. Ben himself is written with such charm that despite knowing better you cannot help but be seduced by him, and that I think is precisely Day’s point.

Catherine Chanter, in the blurb, calls it “more than a page turner” and I could not agree more. If it were published today I am certain it would be in the running for a literary prize. It is sharp, layered and gorgeously written.

As someone who adored Magpie, I could not help but notice the echoes between the two novels. The antagonist in Magpie carries subtle undertones of Martin in The Party. Both books invite us into unsettling psychological territory where love, obsession and control blur. It struck me how Day, even in this earlier work, was already honing her gift for creating characters who feel uncomfortably real. If you enjoyed Magpie, you will likely find The Party just as compelling, though in a slightly darker, more claustrophobic way.

The Party has gone straight into my top ten, though I will need to reshuffle that list to make space. A quick but profound read, dark yet compelling, complex yet utterly absorbing. I loved it.

Book Club Questions on The Party by Elizabeth Day

  • Which character did you like best, and which did you dislike the most? Discuss why they stood out to you and how Day’s writing shaped your feelings toward them.
  • The novel paints a sharp picture of privilege. How do you see the wealthy group using their money and status to avoid consequences, and what does this say about society today?
  • What did you think of Elizabeth Day’s writing style in The Party? How did the movement between past and present influence your reading experience?
  • How did you feel about the police interviews with Martin? Did they make you trust him more, or question him further?
  • The ending is left a little up in the air. What do you think might happen to the characters after the party, and why do you think Day chose not to give us full closure?
  • How would you describe the bond between Ben and Martin? Was it true friendship, dependence, manipulation, or perhaps a shifting mixture of all three?
  • Do you see Martin as a kind of psychopath, or more as a tragic figure shaped by his upbringing and rejection? What clues from the text led you to your view?
  • The school scenes are vivid and unsettling. Did they match how you imagine life in private boarding schools, and how do they set the stage for Martin and Ben’s later lives?
  • What do you make of Lucy’s role in the novel? How much did she know, or choose not to know, about Martin and his past?
  • How do you feel about the way things end for Lucy? Do you think she found freedom, loss, or something else?
  • What message do you think Elizabeth Day wanted readers to take away from The Party about love, power and truth, and how does it connect to the themes in her later work like Magpie?

Book Club Questions on Elizabeth Day’s The Party (for if you haven’t read the book!)

  • Ben and Martin’s schooldays are central to the story. What kind of schooling did you have, and was it anything like the private boarding school experience described here? Discuss how your own school years shaped you.
  • Martin is portrayed as manipulative and stalkerish. Do you enjoy books that explore darker psychological traits, or do you find them unsettling? Discuss what draws you in or puts you off.
  • The Party is told through a mix of diary entries, police interviews, and alternating narration. What kinds of book structures do you enjoy most, and why? Discuss whether you prefer linear stories, multiple perspectives, or more experimental formats.
  • Elizabeth Day is also well known as a television personality and podcast host. How do you think knowing or experiencing a writer in another format affects your reading of their books? Discuss whether it changes your expectations or connection with the story.
  • The novel raises questions about friendship and power. What makes a friendship healthy or unhealthy in your view? Discuss whether you have ever seen relationships with an imbalance of power like Martin and Ben’s.
  • Wealth and privilege play a big role in the book. Do you think people with great wealth have an easier time escaping the consequences of their actions? Discuss whether you have noticed this in real life or in other stories.
  • Secrets and betrayals drive much of the tension in The Party. How important do you think honesty is in relationships? Discuss whether you enjoy books that revolve around hidden truths.

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